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Workshops are scheduled for the conference in these categories: Couples/Spouses, General, Leaders, Leaders/Therapists, Men, Women, Parents, Youth. The workshops are listed both by date/time and by category.
 
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2C

Wednesday
Jul 20, 2005

10:45 AM
to
12:15 PM
Parents/Families
3 Things to Say When You Don't Know What to Say
In this workshop, Nancy will elaborate on her testimony with some practical suggestions for the church as well as for family and friends when you hear the words, "I'm gay." There will be some time for participants to share stories about what has worked for them or what hasn't, when they didn't know what to say or do.
Dr. Nancy Heche
Men
Twelve Steps to Ex-Gay Survival
Many people leave the homosexual lifestyle, but a large number do not stay out. The steps to staying out are simple, but require an honest look at many of the non-sexual attitudes, desires and actions we often overlook. Most are unaware of the "small foxes" that separate us from the power of God. All these things are Biblical principles that must be applied for victory to take place.
Frank Worthen
Women
Straight Women in an Ex-Gay World
There will always be ever-straight women around the ex-gay men we are helping. They are invaluable as volunteers and helpers. Many of these women have been the driving force behind the men we help. But there are special problems that come from these relationships. This class will help the straight woman, and inform leadership who minister to them.
Anita Worthen
Women
Understanding the Roots of Lesbianism
Although every woman dealing with female homosexuality is unique in her life experiences, there are a number of common "roots" existent in the lives of many women affected by lesbianism. This workshop will explain variations of lesbianism as well as examine the most common contributing factors to a deeply rooted same-gender struggle including, for example, family relational deficits, sexual abuse, gender role misperceptions, personality temperament, and various spiritual components.
Melissa Fryrear, M.Div.
Leaders
Becoming Trustworthy:
Integrity and Boundaries
As ministers of sexual and relational wholeness, God calls us to practice what we preach. That means drawing near to God and others in those areas where we are still weak and broken. This workshop will address integrity, the need for accountability and boundaries as we answer the call to be wounded healers.
Dean Greer
General
Counting the Costs:
A Walk of Faith-Foundations for Healing
In this workshop Stephen will be addressing the issue of faith and the confusion surrounding the ex-gay and those who say "I tried; it doesn't work." A walk of faith must address the distressing questions posed by the critics. This class is to challenge each of us biblically about what we really believe. This is foundational for lasting freedom and healing.
Stephen Black
General
Spiritual Warfare Part 1:
Being Alert, Not Afraid
This introduction to spiritual warfare focuses on the security and protection believers have in Christ, as well as the key to winning the battle in daily spiritual conflicts with Satan, the enemy of our souls.
Chip Griespma
2D

Wednesday
Jul 20, 2005

1:30 PM
to
2:45 PM
General
The Process of Transformation
In this workshop, Roy will present the model that he uses in counseling individuals dealing with unwanted same-sex attraction. He will also discuss the "change process" when dealing with same sex attraction issues and addictions.
Roy Blankenship
General
Breaking Free from Shame
Description: This workshop addresses the role that shame, a sense of being uniquely and hopelessly flawed, plays in the development of homosexuality and lesbianism. Identifying sources of shame and steps to break free of its influence will be discussed.
Melissa Coffey
General
Understanding & Overcoming Temptation
All of us face various temptations every day of our lives. Some temptations are easy to resist and others are not so easy. Those temptations, which we habitually give in to most often, may create much shame and guilt, thus causing us to feel separated from the Father who is our true source of being. We may even find ourselves unable to feel or experience His love and healing. This workshop will Biblically and psychologically explore the anatomy of our temptation and teach us how to be an overcomer in temptation.
Michael Babb
General
Answering Pro-Gay Theology
The question “What does the Scripture really say about homosexuality?” takes on more urgency each year. This class, presented by a former staff member of a gay church, will examine pro-gay interpretations of Biblical references to homosexuality, and offer a response.
Joe Dallas
Leaders
I Do Exist
Dr. Warren Throckmorton will Show the film “I Do Exist” and discuss the newest developments in efforts to use media to raise awareness of the ex-gay message.
Dr. Warren Throckmorton
Women
Masturbators Anonymous:
Tips and Techniques to Help You Break the Habit
This class will explore whether masturbation is sin, are there special circumstances when it is not, tips and techniques to increase self-control, the importance of accountability, and the role of thought life.
Christine Sneeringer
General
Spiritual Warfare Part 2:
Fully Equipped for Freedom
This session focuses on God’s provisions and armor, as well as our responsibilities for living fully free in the midst of spiritual conflicts with Satan, the enemy of our souls.
Chip Griepsma
General
Living with HIV
Blessing or Curse / Hope or Despair
HIV wars with our body. There are ways we must fight the battle, both physically and spiritually. Come hear from one that has lived with HIV for over nine years.
Christopher Yuan
3C

Thursday
Jul 21, 2005

10:45 AM
to
12:15 PM
Couples/Spouses
Radical Remodel
"How God Transforms a Marriage"
What do you do when you have no loving feelings, broken trust, anger and disillusionment in your marriage? Many couples, when blindsided by the presence of homosexuality in their marriage, find themselves with nothing but the vows they made before God when they stood at the marriage altar together. This workshop will explore how God honors obedience to those vows, and will explore the ways God grows love, restores trust, wipes away anger and builds a marriage beyond expectation and imagination!
Mike and Stephanie Goeke
Women
Relapse Prevention
TBA
Christine Sneeringer
Leaders
Effective Leadership:
Helping Leaders Grow Themselves and Their Ministries
Each workshop leader will discuss aspects of leadership from the context of ministry and administration. Topics would include: being bi-vocational, relationships and funding, purity in leadership, experiencing God’s anointing, volunteerism, personal growth and development of the leader and staff, time management, vision, becoming and being a leader, passion and avoiding the pitfalls of burnout, immorality and broken family.
Roy Blankenship, Troy Haas, James Eubanks
General
Healing the Father Wound
Our earthly father is our template for how we view our heavenly Father. Our fathers also influence us in our gender and sexuality. This class will discuss this important relationship and God’s desire to bring healing to us.
Tom Cole
Parents/Families
Parents in Pain
How do you get from the depths of despair to a posture of praise after finding out your child is gay? This class will help family members get back on the journey of life.
Terri Brown
General
Masculine/Feminine: What Difference Does it Make? How God Reflects His Image on Earth
This course will provide the necessary understanding to God’s true masculine and feminine characteristics. As we seek to become more like Christ, we will discover how we already embody the Imago Dei as a man or woman.
Dan Puumala, M.Div. and Nancy Hallett
3D

Thursday
Jul 21, 2005

1:30 PM
to
2:45 PM
Women
Silencing the Voices of Misogyny
This workshop will address the manifestations of misogyny; the ways it effects the development of Same Sex Attraction (SSA) in women; how it shapes out self image, and how to break free from the patterns of self protection used to defend against misogyny.
Dee Dee Mattingly
General
Learning to Forgive
Forgiveness is the hub of healing for the homosexual struggler and for every Christian. This workshop is an attempt to woo our hearts to understand and embrace forgiveness with the heart and nature of God.
April Espinoza
General
Overcoming Passivity and Establishing Boundaries
Because passivity is a common problem among people in recovery, the husband/wife presenters will use their own personal and professional experiences to outline the effects of personal passivity, and offer a practical, step by step guide for establishing healthy boundaries.
Joe Dallas
Leaders
A Model for Working with Spouses
Since Melissa works primarily with spouses of addicts and those with sexual brokenness issues, we thought it might be helpful for leaders to have a chance to hear how she effectively works with this population.
Melissa Haas
General
Mercy: Core of Redemption
As we receive Christ’s mercy at the deepest points of shame, alienation and fear, we enter into new levels of freedom and His resurrection life. The choice entailed is illustrated vividly in a pair of contrasting soliloquies from “Les Miserables”.
Sonia Balcer
Men
Married Men Struggling with Homosexuality
Will I Survive?
Being a married man and struggling with homosexuality can be extremely difficult. This workshop will psychologically explore the roots of brokenness and the Biblical foundation for the masculine healing all men so desperately need.
Michael Babb
Leaders
Starting and Refining an Exodus Ministry
Whether you've been in ministry for many years, or you're just thinking of starting, this class will help you define what to expect and to be more effective and professional in your approach for the long hall.
McKrae Game
General
Freedom from Sexual Addiction:
Freedom for Divine Passion
This workshop will address the various aspects of sexual addiction by defining it, discussing numerous sources, identifying the common roots (symptoms), understanding and breaking the addictive cycle by suggesting practical, yet painful remedies to this deceptive, insidious stronghold. Replacing our addictive patterns with God’s original intents, purposes and transforming desires will be a major emphasis.
Jeff Watros
4C

Friday
Jul 22, 2005

10:45 AM
to
12:15 PM
Leaders
"Physician Assisted Suicide."
Counseling Strategies for Transexuals
Participants will learn to discern the distinguishing differences between the homosexual and transexual. They will learn vital counseling strategies that produce a most positive outcome for personal resolution of these internal conflicts. This class is designed to help care-givers to better understand and care for those struggling with these issues: Their origin, development, and most effective means to effect lasting change.
Jerry Leach
General
Breaking Through Self-Hatred and Into God's Arms
This workshop will explore the rose that self-hatred plays in creating rebellion and addiction and propose a way out.
David Kyle Foster
General
Embracing "The" Process
Bob will discuss how to embrace the process of on-going change through having the right focus and realistic goals. He will provide practical and spiritual applications for the real process: sanctification.
Bob Ragan
General
Shame: The Drive Behind Sexual Addiction
Shame is the inner drive that leads to compulsive sexual behavior. The key to freedom from compulsivity is understanding our inner wounds and replacing a false self perception with a true gendered self.
Stan Leonard
General
Sexual Integrity
Sex sells! And society is buying even with epidemic rates of STDs. This practical presentation will give statistical answers regarding condoms and STDs. As a former Youth Director and later Singles Director, we had gut-wrenching defeat, but also valiantly won victory. I will share the real steps to success for sexual integrity.
June Hunt
Women
The Power of Beauty:
The Christian Woman's Response to the Secular Message of a Woman's Value?
Every woman longs to know she is beautiful. The world tells women that physical beauty and sexual prowess are what make a woman powerful. But God's creation of beauty is in direct conflict with this world view. Only when we let go of our idolatry for the world's beauty are we able to understand the true depth and power that come from allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our understanding of beauty.
Regina Franklin
Leaders
Building Good Media Relations I & II, Q & A
This workshop is designed to help you build a proactive plan for dealing with the local press. We will discuss how the news gathering process works, how to set up internal processes that will help you make good media decisions, how to be an asset to the press and how to get a reporter's attention.
Julie Neils
Men
Freedom from Masturbation? It's Possible
This workshop answers common questions about masturbation, discusses why it's practiced, and what Scripture says about human sexuality. The workshop will conclude with practical suggestions to overcome this bondage.
Calvin Snyder
4D

Friday
Jul 22, 2005

1:30 PM
to
2:45 PM
General
The Journey Through Sexual Abuse
This class will focus on the process sexual abuse survivors often go through. It is a guide for those who have been sexually abused as well as friends and family of abuse survivors.
Dawn Videto
General
Core Beliefs:
Recognition and Transformation
One reason recovery from sexual brokenness is so difficult is because of faulty core beliefs. This workshop explores seven core beliefs that many of us unknowingly embrace. In it you will learn how to recognize and dismantle them in order to move into new freedom.
Russell Willingham
Couples/Spouses
Making Your Marriage Work
The ex-gay male is under pressure to marry and meet the expectations of family and friends. Most of these men do want a wife and family, but find themselves in unfamiliar territory. Without a road map they find themselves in very confusing and threatning situations. "Am I read for marriage" is a major concern. After marriage are there unique issues that come from their ex-gay background? How can the ex-gay be prepared for a healthy, fulfilling marriage?
Frank and Anita Worthen
Parents/Families
God's Antidote for Distressed Families/Individuals
Explore five Biblical truths that can help towards the prevention and healing of problems that arise with growing kids, problems like: addictions, eating disorders, promiscuity, and same sex attractions.
Don Schmierer
General
Stop Doing Wrong, Learn to Do Right
This instruction, found in Isaiah 1:16–17, must be understood if we’re going to change habits, behaviors, beliefs, etc. Change is possible when we LEARN what we need to learn. We must know what to stop doing wrong (what to put off), what to do right (what to put on), and how to renew our minds (Ephesians 4:22-24). Kathy will take us through a four-step change process that God can use to transform us. Righteousness is our goal!
Kathy Koch
General
Journaling: Growing through The Word
This workshop is for anyone who seeks more intimacy with God and deeper healing through journaling. For those who already write, Bonnie will offer tips and examples on how to make your journaling experience even more powerful.
Bonnie Doebley
5C

Saturday
Jul 23, 2005

10:45 AM
to
12:15 PM
General
What does the Hebrew Bible really say about Homosexuality?
This discussion will explain the implications of several theological and psychological concepts found in the Hebrew Bible and Talmud, including Leviticus 18:22, Leviticus 18:3, Deut. 22:5, and present information how these sources mandate a healing strategy for those with Same-Sex Attractions. (For example, what are the implications of the Talmud’s explanation that the Hebrew in Leviticus 18:22 means “you have been led astray?”)
Arthur Goldberg
General
Friendship or Emotional Dependency?
Developing healthy friendships remains mysterious and chanllenging, yet friendship is key in the healing journey. This class explores the dependency drive, levels of friendship, discusses what boundaried friendships are and explores how to begin to make and keep friends.
Laura Leigh Stanlake
Parents/Families
Raising Gender Secure Children
God intends for children to be cherished, including their gender. This workshop covers principles for pouring affirmation into children’s souls and dealing with the challenges to kids who lack gender security. (Geared to anyone interested in children.)
Sue Bohlin
Leaders
How to Educate the Public on the Topic of Homosexuality
This class will equip ministry leaders to educate their churches on the "causes of homosexuality and ways Christians should respond." Educating on this issue must be done in a way which enhances the effectiveness of ministry, not in a way which alienates people.
Julie Harren
General
Change Happens!
God can change any life – no matter the issues. Change is not dependent on a program, or a special prayer, or an ex-gay ministry, or a book. He changes lives in His way, and in His time. This workshop will explore the common ways God often institutes change, no matter the issue, no matter the setting and no matter the circumstances.
Mike Goeke
Couples/Spouses
Walking Alongside your Husband
Whether you have just learned of you husband's struggle with homosexuality or have known for years, how do you walk with your husband through the crisis in your marriage? What do you do to move past the crisis and into a fulfilling life, no matter the circumstances? This workshop will share the Lord’s plan and faithfulness as you walk through the difficult days and the good days.
Stephanie Goeke
General
Single and More Than Satisfied
Kathy believes that if the single life was good enough for Jesus, it’s good enough for her. Kathy details other reasons she is content and more than satisfied as a single adult and concludes with an exhortation. After listening, you may agree that singleness can be celebrated. If not, that’s okay. You’ll still be encouraged. God may meet your needs through Kathy’s refreshing perspective, comforting sensitivity to peoples’s discourgagement and doubts, practical ideas, helpful interpretation of Scripture, and humorous stories. You man even laugh at yourself
Kathy Koch
5D

Saturday
Jul 23, 2005

1:30 PM
to
2:45 PM
General
Responding to Anger
Respond, not stuff, not deny, not explode but to respond to anger, as to answer anger. We will explore workable, liveable ways to respond to Biblically to anger, to deal with anger in your own heart and that in someone elses.
April Espinoza
General
"It's My Secret"
Perhaps you've said, "Mine is a Bible study and not a support group for homosexual strugglers. No one will ever know." And you would not be alone. This workshop focuses on the issue of secrecy and the healing journey.
Bob Van Domelen
General
Intimacy with God for the Sexually Broken
When it comes to closeness with God many of us struggle with ambivalence, fear, anger or boredom. This workshop examines why we run from the most extravagant love in the universe and how to turn around and connect with Him in a deeply relational way.
Russell Willingham
Men
The Forward Program:
Real Progress in Resolving and Managing SSA
The Forward Program, authored by Dr. Bill Consiglio [Homosexual No More - 1991], engages the participant in a year-long work which addresses the underlying emotional, psychological, and psychosexual causes of same sex attraction. There are twelve areas in particular which need attention and lead to greater psychosexual maturity, and the management and resolution of same sex attraction.
Richard D. Schempp Jr.
General
Honesty: Is it Really the Best Policy?
For those who are beginning the process of personal recovery or those who have been at it a while, we can all grow from the message of honesty. It is my hope that through this discussion, each one listening will gain the courage to move into personal honesty, honesty with others, and ultimately honesty with God. While God already knows everything, there is tremendous overcoming power in honesty and coming into an agreement with God about our fallen lives.
Rev. John Smid
General
Victory Over Verbal and Emotional Abuse
"Sticks and stones may break my bones..."but words can break my heart! This presentation presents practical help and Biblical hope for both the abused and the abusers. Helping you: the abused to draw beneficial boundaries and the abusers to tame their tongues!
June Hunt


Conference Workshops Guest Speaker
Couples/Spouses
Making Your Marriage Work
The ex-gay male is under pressure to marry and meet the expectations of family and friends. Most of these men do want a wife and family, but find themselves in unfamiliar territory. Without a road map they find themselves in very confusing and threatning situations. "Am I read for marriage" is a major concern. After marriage are there unique issues that come from their ex-gay background? How can the ex-gay be prepared for a healthy, fulfilling marriage?
Frank and Anita Worthen
Radical Remodel
"How God Transforms a Marriage"
What do you do when you have no loving feelings, broken trust, anger and disillusionment in your marriage? Many couples, when blindsided by the presence of homosexuality in their marriage, find themselves with nothing but the vows they made before God when they stood at the marriage altar together. This workshop will explore how God honors obedience to those vows, and will explore the ways God grows love, restores trust, wipes away anger and builds a marriage beyond expectation and imagination!
Mike and Stephanie Goeke
Walking Alongside your Husband
Whether you have just learned of you husband's struggle with homosexuality or have known for years, how do you walk with your husband through the crisis in your marriage? What do you do to move past the crisis and into a fulfilling life, no matter the circumstances? This workshop will share the Lord’s plan and faithfulness as you walk through the difficult days and the good days.
Stephanie Goeke
General
"It's My Secret"
Perhaps you've said, "Mine is a Bible study and not a support group for homosexual strugglers. No one will ever know." And you would not be alone. This workshop focuses on the issue of secrecy and the healing journey.
Bob Van Domelen
Answering Pro-Gay Theology
The question “What does the Scripture really say about homosexuality?” takes on more urgency each year. This class, presented by a former staff member of a gay church, will examine pro-gay interpretations of Biblical references to homosexuality, and offer a response.
Joe Dallas
Breaking Free from Shame
Description: This workshop addresses the role that shame, a sense of being uniquely and hopelessly flawed, plays in the development of homosexuality and lesbianism. Identifying sources of shame and steps to break free of its influence will be discussed.
Melissa Coffey
Breaking Through Self-Hatred and Into God's Arms
This workshop will explore the rose that self-hatred plays in creating rebellion and addiction and propose a way out.
David Kyle Foster
Change Happens!
God can change any life – no matter the issues. Change is not dependent on a program, or a special prayer, or an ex-gay ministry, or a book. He changes lives in His way, and in His time. This workshop will explore the common ways God often institutes change, no matter the issue, no matter the setting and no matter the circumstances.
Mike Goeke
Core Beliefs:
Recognition and Transformation
One reason recovery from sexual brokenness is so difficult is because of faulty core beliefs. This workshop explores seven core beliefs that many of us unknowingly embrace. In it you will learn how to recognize and dismantle them in order to move into new freedom.
Russell Willingham
Counting the Costs:
A Walk of Faith-Foundations for Healing
In this workshop Stephen will be addressing the issue of faith and the confusion surrounding the ex-gay and those who say "I tried; it doesn't work." A walk of faith must address the distressing questions posed by the critics. This class is to challenge each of us biblically about what we really believe. This is foundational for lasting freedom and healing.
Stephen Black
Embracing "The" Process
Bob will discuss how to embrace the process of on-going change through having the right focus and realistic goals. He will provide practical and spiritual applications for the real process: sanctification.
Bob Ragan
Freedom from Sexual Addiction:
Freedom for Divine Passion
This workshop will address the various aspects of sexual addiction by defining it, discussing numerous sources, identifying the common roots (symptoms), understanding and breaking the addictive cycle by suggesting practical, yet painful remedies to this deceptive, insidious stronghold. Replacing our addictive patterns with God’s original intents, purposes and transforming desires will be a major emphasis.
Jeff Watros
Friendship or Emotional Dependency?
Developing healthy friendships remains mysterious and chanllenging, yet friendship is key in the healing journey. This class explores the dependency drive, levels of friendship, discusses what boundaried friendships are and explores how to begin to make and keep friends.
Laura Leigh Stanlake
Healing the Father Wound
Our earthly father is our template for how we view our heavenly Father. Our fathers also influence us in our gender and sexuality. This class will discuss this important relationship and God’s desire to bring healing to us.
Tom Cole
Honesty: Is it Really the Best Policy?
For those who are beginning the process of personal recovery or those who have been at it a while, we can all grow from the message of honesty. It is my hope that through this discussion, each one listening will gain the courage to move into personal honesty, honesty with others, and ultimately honesty with God. While God already knows everything, there is tremendous overcoming power in honesty and coming into an agreement with God about our fallen lives.
Rev. John Smid
Intimacy with God for the Sexually Broken
When it comes to closeness with God many of us struggle with ambivalence, fear, anger or boredom. This workshop examines why we run from the most extravagant love in the universe and how to turn around and connect with Him in a deeply relational way.
Russell Willingham
Journaling: Growing through The Word
This workshop is for anyone who seeks more intimacy with God and deeper healing through journaling. For those who already write, Bonnie will offer tips and examples on how to make your journaling experience even more powerful.
Bonnie Doebley
Learning to Forgive
Forgiveness is the hub of healing for the homosexual struggler and for every Christian. This workshop is an attempt to woo our hearts to understand and embrace forgiveness with the heart and nature of God.
April Espinoza
Living with HIV
Blessing or Curse / Hope or Despair
HIV wars with our body. There are ways we must fight the battle, both physically and spiritually. Come hear from one that has lived with HIV for over nine years.
Christopher Yuan
Masculine/Feminine: What Difference Does it Make? How God Reflects His Image on Earth
This course will provide the necessary understanding to God’s true masculine and feminine characteristics. As we seek to become more like Christ, we will discover how we already embody the Imago Dei as a man or woman.
Dan Puumala, M.Div. and Nancy Hallett
Mercy: Core of Redemption
As we receive Christ’s mercy at the deepest points of shame, alienation and fear, we enter into new levels of freedom and His resurrection life. The choice entailed is illustrated vividly in a pair of contrasting soliloquies from “Les Miserables”.
Sonia Balcer
Overcoming Passivity and Establishing Boundaries
Because passivity is a common problem among people in recovery, the husband/wife presenters will use their own personal and professional experiences to outline the effects of personal passivity, and offer a practical, step by step guide for establishing healthy boundaries.
Joe Dallas
Responding to Anger
Respond, not stuff, not deny, not explode but to respond to anger, as to answer anger. We will explore workable, liveable ways to respond to Biblically to anger, to deal with anger in your own heart and that in someone elses.
April Espinoza
Sexual Integrity
Sex sells! And society is buying even with epidemic rates of STDs. This practical presentation will give statistical answers regarding condoms and STDs. As a former Youth Director and later Singles Director, we had gut-wrenching defeat, but also valiantly won victory. I will share the real steps to success for sexual integrity.
June Hunt
Shame: The Drive Behind Sexual Addiction
Shame is the inner drive that leads to compulsive sexual behavior. The key to freedom from compulsivity is understanding our inner wounds and replacing a false self perception with a true gendered self.
Stan Leonard
Single and More Than Satisfied
Kathy believes that if the single life was good enough for Jesus, it’s good enough for her. Kathy details other reasons she is content and more than satisfied as a single adult and concludes with an exhortation. After listening, you may agree that singleness can be celebrated. If not, that’s okay. You’ll still be encouraged. God may meet your needs through Kathy’s refreshing perspective, comforting sensitivity to peoples’s discourgagement and doubts, practical ideas, helpful interpretation of Scripture, and humorous stories. You man even laugh at yourself
Kathy Koch
Spiritual Warfare Part 1:
Being Alert, Not Afraid
This introduction to spiritual warfare focuses on the security and protection believers have in Christ, as well as the key to winning the battle in daily spiritual conflicts with Satan, the enemy of our souls.
Chip Griespma
Spiritual Warfare Part 2:
Fully Equipped for Freedom
This session focuses on God’s provisions and armor, as well as our responsibilities for living fully free in the midst of spiritual conflicts with Satan, the enemy of our souls.
Chip Griepsma
Stop Doing Wrong, Learn to Do Right
This instruction, found in Isaiah 1:16–17, must be understood if we’re going to change habits, behaviors, beliefs, etc. Change is possible when we LEARN what we need to learn. We must know what to stop doing wrong (what to put off), what to do right (what to put on), and how to renew our minds (Ephesians 4:22-24). Kathy will take us through a four-step change process that God can use to transform us. Righteousness is our goal!
Kathy Koch
The Journey Through Sexual Abuse
This class will focus on the process sexual abuse survivors often go through. It is a guide for those who have been sexually abused as well as friends and family of abuse survivors.
Dawn Videto
The Process of Transformation
In this workshop, Roy will present the model that he uses in counseling individuals dealing with unwanted same-sex attraction. He will also discuss the "change process" when dealing with same sex attraction issues and addictions.
Roy Blankenship
Understanding & Overcoming Temptation
All of us face various temptations every day of our lives. Some temptations are easy to resist and others are not so easy. Those temptations, which we habitually give in to most often, may create much shame and guilt, thus causing us to feel separated from the Father who is our true source of being. We may even find ourselves unable to feel or experience His love and healing. This workshop will Biblically and psychologically explore the anatomy of our temptation and teach us how to be an overcomer in temptation.
Michael Babb
Victory Over Verbal and Emotional Abuse
"Sticks and stones may break my bones..."but words can break my heart! This presentation presents practical help and Biblical hope for both the abused and the abusers. Helping you: the abused to draw beneficial boundaries and the abusers to tame their tongues!
June Hunt
What does the Hebrew Bible really say about Homosexuality?
This discussion will explain the implications of several theological and psychological concepts found in the Hebrew Bible and Talmud, including Leviticus 18:22, Leviticus 18:3, Deut. 22:5, and present information how these sources mandate a healing strategy for those with Same-Sex Attractions. (For example, what are the implications of the Talmud’s explanation that the Hebrew in Leviticus 18:22 means “you have been led astray?”)
Arthur Goldberg
Leaders
"Physician Assisted Suicide."
Counseling Strategies for Transexuals
Participants will learn to discern the distinguishing differences between the homosexual and transexual. They will learn vital counseling strategies that produce a most positive outcome for personal resolution of these internal conflicts. This class is designed to help care-givers to better understand and care for those struggling with these issues: Their origin, development, and most effective means to effect lasting change.
Jerry Leach
A Model for Working with Spouses
Since Melissa works primarily with spouses of addicts and those with sexual brokenness issues, we thought it might be helpful for leaders to have a chance to hear how she effectively works with this population.
Melissa Haas
Becoming Trustworthy:
Integrity and Boundaries
As ministers of sexual and relational wholeness, God calls us to practice what we preach. That means drawing near to God and others in those areas where we are still weak and broken. This workshop will address integrity, the need for accountability and boundaries as we answer the call to be wounded healers.
Dean Greer
Building Good Media Relations I & II, Q & A
This workshop is designed to help you build a proactive plan for dealing with the local press. We will discuss how the news gathering process works, how to set up internal processes that will help you make good media decisions, how to be an asset to the press and how to get a reporter's attention.
Julie Neils
Effective Leadership:
Helping Leaders Grow Themselves and Their Ministries
Each workshop leader will discuss aspects of leadership from the context of ministry and administration. Topics would include: being bi-vocational, relationships and funding, purity in leadership, experiencing God’s anointing, volunteerism, personal growth and development of the leader and staff, time management, vision, becoming and being a leader, passion and avoiding the pitfalls of burnout, immorality and broken family.
Roy Blankenship, Troy Haas, James Eubanks
How to Educate the Public on the Topic of Homosexuality
This class will equip ministry leaders to educate their churches on the "causes of homosexuality and ways Christians should respond." Educating on this issue must be done in a way which enhances the effectiveness of ministry, not in a way which alienates people.
Julie Harren
I Do Exist
Dr. Warren Throckmorton will Show the film “I Do Exist” and discuss the newest developments in efforts to use media to raise awareness of the ex-gay message.
Dr. Warren Throckmorton
Starting and Refining an Exodus Ministry
Whether you've been in ministry for many years, or you're just thinking of starting, this class will help you define what to expect and to be more effective and professional in your approach for the long hall.
McKrae Game
Men
Freedom from Masturbation? It's Possible
This workshop answers common questions about masturbation, discusses why it's practiced, and what Scripture says about human sexuality. The workshop will conclude with practical suggestions to overcome this bondage.
Calvin Snyder
Married Men Struggling with Homosexuality
Will I Survive?
Being a married man and struggling with homosexuality can be extremely difficult. This workshop will psychologically explore the roots of brokenness and the Biblical foundation for the masculine healing all men so desperately need.
Michael Babb
The Forward Program:
Real Progress in Resolving and Managing SSA
The Forward Program, authored by Dr. Bill Consiglio [Homosexual No More - 1991], engages the participant in a year-long work which addresses the underlying emotional, psychological, and psychosexual causes of same sex attraction. There are twelve areas in particular which need attention and lead to greater psychosexual maturity, and the management and resolution of same sex attraction.
Richard D. Schempp Jr.
Twelve Steps to Ex-Gay Survival
Many people leave the homosexual lifestyle, but a large number do not stay out. The steps to staying out are simple, but require an honest look at many of the non-sexual attitudes, desires and actions we often overlook. Most are unaware of the "small foxes" that separate us from the power of God. All these things are Biblical principles that must be applied for victory to take place.
Frank Worthen
Parents/Families
3 Things to Say When You Don't Know What to Say
In this workshop, Nancy will elaborate on her testimony with some practical suggestions for the church as well as for family and friends when you hear the words, "I'm gay." There will be some time for participants to share stories about what has worked for them or what hasn't, when they didn't know what to say or do.
Dr. Nancy Heche
God's Antidote for Distressed Families/Individuals
Explore five Biblical truths that can help towards the prevention and healing of problems that arise with growing kids, problems like: addictions, eating disorders, promiscuity, and same sex attractions.
Don Schmierer
Parents in Pain
How do you get from the depths of despair to a posture of praise after finding out your child is gay? This class will help family members get back on the journey of life.
Terri Brown
Raising Gender Secure Children
God intends for children to be cherished, including their gender. This workshop covers principles for pouring affirmation into children’s souls and dealing with the challenges to kids who lack gender security. (Geared to anyone interested in children.)
Sue Bohlin
Women
Masturbators Anonymous:
Tips and Techniques to Help You Break the Habit
This class will explore whether masturbation is sin, are there special circumstances when it is not, tips and techniques to increase self-control, the importance of accountability, and the role of thought life.
Christine Sneeringer
Relapse Prevention
TBA
Christine Sneeringer
Silencing the Voices of Misogyny
This workshop will address the manifestations of misogyny; the ways it effects the development of Same Sex Attraction (SSA) in women; how it shapes out self image, and how to break free from the patterns of self protection used to defend against misogyny.
Dee Dee Mattingly
Straight Women in an Ex-Gay World
There will always be ever-straight women around the ex-gay men we are helping. They are invaluable as volunteers and helpers. Many of these women have been the driving force behind the men we help. But there are special problems that come from these relationships. This class will help the straight woman, and inform leadership who minister to them.
Anita Worthen
The Power of Beauty:
The Christian Woman's Response to the Secular Message of a Woman's Value?
Every woman longs to know she is beautiful. The world tells women that physical beauty and sexual prowess are what make a woman powerful. But God's creation of beauty is in direct conflict with this world view. Only when we let go of our idolatry for the world's beauty are we able to understand the true depth and power that come from allowing the Holy Spirit to transform our understanding of beauty.
Regina Franklin
Understanding the Roots of Lesbianism
Although every woman dealing with female homosexuality is unique in her life experiences, there are a number of common "roots" existent in the lives of many women affected by lesbianism. This workshop will explain variations of lesbianism as well as examine the most common contributing factors to a deeply rooted same-gender struggle including, for example, family relational deficits, sexual abuse, gender role misperceptions, personality temperament, and various spiritual components.
Melissa Fryrear, M.Div.
Why Can't we be Friends?
TBA
Carol Bachtel
Woman: God's Beautiful Creation
Many women overcoming lesbianism believe a number of misperceptions about what it means to be a woman, and in some cases, hold a great deal of disdain and contempt for womanhood and femininity. This workshop will address issues such as: What is the significance of being created female? What is the nature and calling of woman? And, why has woman been so vehemently attacked throughout history, beginning in the Garden of Eden? Understanding God’s beautiful creation of, and intent for, woman gives profound meaning and significance to those of us who are created in God's image as females.
Melissa Fryrear, M.Div.